Monday 25 April 2016

The Importance of Having A Vendors Meeting



I don't know if this happens to just me or to other event planners as well. I was speaking with a couple of colleagues recently and they all had a thing or two to say about some vendors who feel the need not to attend a vendors meeting and then come on the event day to create a scene. 

If planners can make out time to fix a date for a vendors meeting then I think it will only be fair for the vendors to attend it. 

Vendors meeting is not a luxury; it is one of the crucial aspects when planning a wedding. Many times, we have vendors missing details or not knowing, for instance, the colour of the day as a decorator. 

Sometimes, a bride only hires a day-of Coordinator and may skip one or two things. Hence, the need for a vendors meeting. 

It is during this vendors meeting that all vendors can come together to see how they can work together as one big team to create a successful event. For example, we all know that there is always this feud between the band and DJ. At a vendors meeting, they can talk about their differences and which aspects of the programme they will be responsible for, thereby allowing peace to reign on the day of the event.

The importance of the vendors meeting is basically to go over all the details so that nothing is missed out. Also to see the other vendors that will be working on the day, to go over the floor plan for the event, talk about balances where need be, bring up suggestions as to how the event can run successfully without hitches.

This is an appeal to vendors out there, please make our work easier and please attend vendors meeting when asked to.


Olamide~ The Heiress

Sunday 24 April 2016

Did you know?



Did you know? 
Queen Victoria started the Western world's white wedding dress trend in 1840. Before then, brides simply wore their best dress.

I often wonder how trends start but somehow i believed that someone somewhere must have started it. For me, it simply means that a trend can be started by anybody. 

The bottomline is, don't kill yourself with trends. The fact that your friend had an after party does not mean that you should too. The fact that she wore an expensive wedding dress, does not mean that you should too. You can be a trend setter with your inexpensive dress or wedding.


Olamide~ The Heiress

Wednesday 20 April 2016

My Wedding Diary


Wedding planners are not perfect. Many a times, i hear brides say all sorts about a planner who forgot to do this or that on their wedding day and as compelled as I feel the urge to reply, i don't.


And this is my reason: No matter how I choose to reply, it can only bear a double perspective. One, i will be chastising them and praising myself OR  I will be defending them. Either ways, it doesn't sound good.


Wedding planners are also human. They can forget a thing or two. And remember that along side yours, they are also planning for other brides. Cut them some slack. They sure want the best for your day and try as much as they can to bring in all the details and create a wonderful day for you, hence the need for you to appreciate their every effort.


Recently, I have been super busy creating wonderful experiences for my brides and i can say for a fact that nothing prepares you for brides and their tantrum where weddings are concerned. If people knew the stress and skills involved in dealing with different brides and their peculiar wahalas, you will probably appreciate Wedding Planners a whole lot more.


Once again, I sincerely apologise for being M.I.A (missing in action) . But please feel free to send a mail to (olamide@la-heiress.com) and i would always reply.



Olamide~ The Heiress




Monday 18 April 2016

Picking That Special Wedding Song



I do not know about you but I know that I am bored stiff with the songs selection brides choose these days, especially for the couple's first dance.

Couple's first dance songs should be songs that mean something to both parties. From the lyrics to the rhythm to the singer. It shouldn't be chosen based on the fact that it is the trending song at the moment. 


Brides to be, this is not a song you choose on your own. Make out time with your fiancĂ© to select songs that you both love and can relate to. You can listen to a couple of songs before making a choice. 


And please there are other songs apart from John Legend's " All of me" and Ed Sheeran's " thinking out loud". Don't get me wrong, they are both beautiful songs but there are other songs and most brides don't even know the lyrics to these songs.


If you're on the hunt for the perfect tune for the first dance, we're here to help. From Nigerian to foreign songs, here are 50 song suggestions sweet enough for a first dance.


1. Hero- Enrique
2. Hero- Mariah Carey
3. Romantic- Korede Bello and Tiwa Savage
4. African Queen- Tuface
5. I need you-  Marc Anthony
6. A thousand years- Christina Perri
7. All my life- KC & Jojo
8. You are beautiful- James Blunt
9. Can't help falling in love with you- Elvis Presley
10. Beneath you're beautiful- Labrinth ft Emeli Sande
11. The way you look tonight- Micheal Buble
12. The only Exception- Paramore
13. Unchained Melody- The Righteous Brothers
14. I won't give up- Jason Mraz
15. I promise- Cece Winas
16. At last- Etta James
17. Oloomi- Tosin Martins
18. Orente- Adekunle Gold
19. From this moment- Shaina Twain
20. Eji owuro- Shola Allison
21. Iyawo mi- Timi Dakolo
22. I wanna grow old with you- Adam Sandler
23. Accidentally in love- Counting crows
24. You're The First, The Last, My Everything – Barry White 
25. I'm yours- Jason Mraz
26. I want it that way- Backstreet Boys
27. Everything i do- Bryan Adams
28. We belong together- Mariah Carey
29. Kiss from a rose- Seal
30. When You Say Nothing At All – Ronan Keating
31. All of me- John Legend
32. Your song- Elton John
33. Twisted- Keith Sweat
34. I will always love you- Whitney Houston
35. I'll be right here waiting for you-  Bryan Adams
36. I'm your angel- Celine Dion
37. Just the way you are-  Bruno Mars
38. I wanna dance with somebody- Whitney Houston
39. Ekuro- Davido
40. Ife wa gbona- Tiwa Savage
41. Ada Ada- Flavour
42. No one like you- P Square
43. Oruka- Sunny Neji
44. Dance with me tonight
45. Bleeding Love- Leona Lewis
46. White dress- Ben Rector
47. A whole new world- Peabo Pryson and Regina Belle
48. Time after time- Cyndi Lauper
49. Tonight, i celebrate my love- Peabo Bryson
50. Thinking out loud- Ed Sheeran
51. When i say i do- Matthew West
52. Titilai- Gaisebaba
53. With you- Oyinkan
54. Forever- Chris Brown
55. You and I- John Legend
56. Love never fails- Brandon Heath



Father- Daughter dance

* Baby girl- Nelson Oliver
* Pray for me- Darey
* Dance with my father again- Luther Vandross (In cases where the father is late)

I hope you find this list helpful. Thank me later *wink*


Olamide~ The Heiress

Sunday 17 April 2016

The Boss vs Employee: It Was Love At First Sight For Me: Olamide and Olanshile's Love Story



So i had saved this and had wanted to share it but somehow, i forgot to click on the 'publish' button. As i was going through my achive, i saw it sitting pretty and decided to share my love story on how i met my Mr Right. Enjoy!

Our Story

I have always been a sucker for chubby dudes. (In fact everything chubby; I will probably not kill a roach because it’s chubby). While I was doing my youth service in Ibadan, I got a call for an interview at a media company in Lagos. I was overjoyed because I didn't want to stay at home after NYSC was over.

I got to Lagos and started having cold feet. I started thinking of everything that could go wrong and why I shouldn't go for the interview. Thank God for my older friends; in fact they made sure they left work to come take me to the venue.



While we were in the waiting room, a young chubby man came to tell us that we were soon to be attended to and all I could see was that he didn't have a ring on that dreaded finger! Till date, I still don't know why that thought crossed my mind. For Christ sakes, I was there for an interview!

When it was my turn for the interview, I was stunned to discover that the cute chubby man was my interviewer! Jeez! I still don't know how I passed the interview because I kept thinking of his cute chubby presence and his cute voice *still drool every time I hear it*



I was hired... I was Single... He was in a relationship... Spoiler!

The one thing I noticed was that he wasn't a woman wrapper; he had strict policies and abided by them. On his birthday, he was so sad, I mean the guy had sadness written all over him. I was almost forced to ask what the matter was but as “I be employee now and he my boss,” I didn't want to cross my boundaries. But I was happy I could use his picture on my BBM for some days without my colleagues asking ’sup.*big grin*

I got to know that his girlfriend broke his heart prior to his birthday. I should have been sad but mehn, I wasn't oh! I started putting extra efforts in my work activities, always going the extra mile, and then one day, he asked me if I would like to see a movie with him! Bingo!!!!!! Mission achieved! Little did I know that all the while, he was “eyeing” me as well!

And the rest they say, is history. I met the man of my dreams where I never thought I would and it's been a beautiful experience so far and I cannot wait to walk down the aisle with him in November and February 2016.




The Mighty Proposal

This my baby and stunts sha! He likes playing the James Bond 007 stunts on me all the time but this one was the one that was going to change my life forever!

It was my birthday and I had always talked about how I hated birthday proposals because it’s all too predictable. It was a great morning of kisses, roses, breakfast in bed, gifts, two cakes and that clichĂ©d romantic stuff... I was having a great day and it was just about to get better.



Around 4pm, people started calling my boo. I was beginning to feel like he was planning something big (like a birthday bash). I wasn't thinking proposal at all because I have talked and over talked sef about hating birthday proposals.

Then at about 5pm, he asked me to get dressed in a dress he had bought for me. All through the drive, the calls kept coming in, asking for directions and I was like," Okay, what's going on?" But I didn't ask, I just went with the flow *my heart still skips a beat writing this* We picked up his sister at some place, and headed for a buffet on the island.

And behold, everybody was there! My brother from Ife, my closest friends, his siblings. I remember screaming. I just kept screaming. I still thought it was a birthday party until Dotun of Cool FM announced that THE BOO had an announcement.